Comments on: Conversation Skills in Bars – Episode #3

By: Explorer

Explorer — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 21:46:32 +0000

Marcus, I love this video. I have a lot of trouble having fun in bar environments, which I’ve been wanting to improve since I feel more comfortable in a daytime situation talking with strangers. I guess it must be the loud music or my fear of being a boring person in an environment where I feel I have to compete with the music, alcohol, and fun nighttime vibe. I’d always go into bars with routines and bar games to play because I was afraid of not being fun enough, but your video pointed out to me that I should first and foremost be positive – which I can definitely do! Your advice is easy-to-understand and practical, and I really appreciate you giving us these tips.

By: Christian

Christian — Mon, 18 Apr 2011 20:29:34 +0000

– hey thanx for your work marcus!
I really appreciate this.
First saw you yesterday on the royal campus DVD ^^
I like your videos and your free e-book, your comments on the interactions are very helpful!

thank you so much!

keep going

By: HavocVulture

HavocVulture — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 22:29:28 +0000

What are the odds that I watched this episode today, 3 days before st paddies day 2011!
Great video, Im gonna have so much fun with this.
Amazing ebook btw, I can not believe its free XD

By: Genki

Genki — Tue, 23 Nov 2010 03:08:22 +0000

Heya
I’m glad I found your site. The stuff you’re showing us is way better for being a cool person (and meeting girls!) than a lot of the other material out there. The girl was really cute too – you could have at least got the contact. She was sad to see you go.

I also have trouble keeping up that enthusiasm and usually I find it creeps away when I start getting back in my head. Taking a pause, breathing deeply, and focusing on being in the moment helps me.

Cheers!

By: admin

admin — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 19:25:10 +0000

Hi Jaus

‘Pacing their Reality’ means that you feedback to the person what you believe they must be experiencing. You do this because it builds rapport with people quickly.

For example, if somebody looks like they are in a hurry, i say “I know you look like you’re in a hurry, but….” In other words you add a running commentary to their personal experience.

This helps demonstrate two things in a conversation: 1. It shows that you are socially intelligent & 2. It builds trust with them because you see what they see.

Hope this helps!

By: Jaus

Jaus — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 09:36:06 +0000

Dear Marcus, I’ve got a question: What do you mean with “pacing their reality”? and why is that so important to do? Thank you in advance! Jaus

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By: admin

admin — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 16:18:56 +0000

Hi Luke, making yourself enthusiastic is a very important concept and I’ll be covering that shortly in detail. Expect to see something along those lines during June/July!

By: Luke

Luke — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 13:50:46 +0000

Hi Mark,

Thanks for the video, this stuff really helps. I like how you take it step by step, it really makes it easier to follow and understand what’s going on. I still have one question though, what if I show up at the bar and am not super enthusiastic. Do you have a good way to get into the mood?

Thanks,

Luke

By: Rafa

Rafa — Sun, 18 Apr 2010 20:52:22 +0000

Hi Marcus! Your videos seem very genuine and I like them a lot! Could you make a video asking a super gorgeous random girl on a date? That would be awesome if she showed up (she might lie … and not show up) and she has to act really interested in you!
And btw it would also be great if she didn’t notice the camera! – (I hope I’m not being very demanding but that would mega great!)