May 19th, 2010
Have you ever felt awkward when starting a new conversation? (I know I have!) Happily, one of my viewers kindly wrote in to ask me for an effective way to overcome social anxiety when talking to new people. I was out in Trafalgar Square, London and decided that it’d be a good place to show you how & why enjoying the conversation is far more important than being focused on the overall impression that you are making. This really helps you to get rid of nervousness and appear confident when dealing with people.
that women was funny! Really informative again. Thanks
awesome video. would of been helpful if you approach 1 or 2 more sets and filmed it.
that would be great. but the infield video you have is great. keep the good work
Love the woman who ran in
I love the episode format – short ans snappy and full of good vibes
Ah, love it!! I actually watched that twice… once to just watch, and the second time to really make use of the subtitles. But oh man, homework?? Err, a dog ate it. Sorry. Not my dog, I don’t have one, just… a dog. Anyway, yes, I do have questions for you! Well, one question really. I sent it to you a little while ago, I’m sure you’re getting round to answering it for me
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Looking forward to the next one!!
Hey Marcus, I appreciate that alot, Im sorry I didnt answer before but I was without internet.
Thanks for it, but I will give value to your teachings as it is awesome and will try before, giving any feed, Im out to try this weekend.
Thanks Again!
Eu quero ser assim!
I want to be like Marcus…
my name is even similar Marcos only changes the letter u !!!! ^^
Meu novo estilo de vida!!
my new lifestyle!
OMG, Marcus Invasion!
So mate, I needed to report how it happened. I went out on the weekend I commented. That night started out weird, but I made commitment to try the advice, and I did.
First a fight started outside (Haha, classic!) .. I managed to be like I was back on school , to peace the fight, I made friends with both guys everything turned out ok, everyone was waiting to enter, I started talking to the bouncers.. the dudes to my surprise were super friendly, later I entered without needing to pay a cover.
I made friends with bar tenders etc. What was awesome that night I was having so much fun and not caring much, I was well recieved by 90-95% of people I talked to, (There were still some bitchy women, I think its normal at the club. No worries)
2 Things I found out.
1 ° My Energy is very different than yours mate, or seems like by the video, is still happy but more than a quiet happy. Dunno if thats right, just me or whatever, I will try to experience more different ranges.
2 ° Doesnt matter how much social or indifferent to negative feedback I was on one night, the other night I still have to kinda start again, is easier, but not so much. It was nice for me to keep that in mind, because the excuses that were gone on first night were back on second and third. It’s the mind trying to trick ! I think the answer to that might be, be social all the time.
Looking forward to the next videos, what ever you think about it, you can message me here or in my email.
Thanks again Marcus.
Great videos!
I just got done watching all of them
They are very informative
keep up the good work
Hey mate, are you still alive?
It’s been over a month since you updated the site and I was starting to enjoy watching you do your crazy approaches on video!
RE: Dax
Sorry about the delay in video updates. More on the way very, very shortly. Hang in there! I intend videos to be weekly very shortly. Thanks for your support!
I play random episode in the morning and it tunes me into positivity
. Thanks!
You are simply amazing! All the best to you!
HAHAHA Awesome! That Lady that run in! Hilarious!
The video is really cool, and helpfull. And i noticed that you are on daygame paradise, hehe, That square is Where Andy and Yad take their students